Unveiling Paternal Journey: Understanding the Lived Experiences of Pantawid Male Solo Parents

Abstract

This descriptive phenomenological study explored the lived experiences of male solo parents who are beneficiaries of the Pantawid Pamilyang Pilipino Program (4Ps) in the Philippines. Through in-depth interviews with participants, the study examined family dynamics, challenges, program influence, coping strategies, and community factors shaping their experiences. Findings revealed that male solo parents assume dual roles as both caregiver and provider, fostering strengthened parent-child bonds while balancing authority and nurturance amidst emotional struggles. Challenges included financial strain despite program assistance, time management pressures, parenting role overload, psychological stress, and reduced time for self. The 4Ps program positively influenced their experiences by alleviating financial burden, enhancing parenting awareness through Family Development Sessions, and strengthening their sense of responsibility. Coping strategies encompassed faith and spiritual reliance, children as primary motivation, work engagement, social support seeking, and personal growth. Community factors such as stigma, social support, economic constraints, and cultural norms significantly shaped their parenting experiences. The study highlights the resilience, adaptation, and commitment of male solo parents within the realities of poverty and social constraints.